5 crazy but common EMS scenes and how to manage them
Things tend to improve when a competent person with a plan arrives on scene
Not all responses go as smoothly as we would like.
People have different thresholds for coping with things that frighten, confuse, or worry them. Objectivity is imperative at an emotional scene; people need somebody to take charge and lead them out of the jungle that has invaded their space.
An emergency scene can be returned to order simply by not participating in the nuttiness. The trick is to calmly, and non-judgmentally try to make things better by finding out what is wrong, solving the problem and getting the right resources to the scene.
Here are five scenes that could easily get out of control, and how to handle them:
1. A dead body in a bedroom
For some weird reason people (myself included) feel better when a person in an official capacity arrives and begins sorting things out. There is no manual for when a person dies at home; even the best hospice programs seldom fully prepare a family for the end. In this situation, it’s best to act like the official the family needs. A simple “I’m sorry for your loss” works wonders. “Is there clergy you can contact?” is also good. “I’ve contacted the proper people, they will help you through this,” will begin the calming down phase. Now that the crisis is over, the healing can begin.
2. A sick child
Treating the child like your own works wonders when the family is concerned. I’ve never seen a troubled scene calm down faster than when I gently put my hand on a feverish kids forehead.
3. An out-of-control argument
The cause of the argument is none of my concern. Separating the arguers is and assessing the severity of the ensuing panic attack is. I’ve never solved an argument that had nothing to do with me and probably never will.
4. A person with a gun threatening to kill himself and/or everybody else
Now is a great time to leave the building, taking whoever will come with you, break the rules, and call the cops.
5. A heart attack
Getting right down to business gives the hostile crowd something to focus on. I like to give one or two of them jobs such as clearing a path, opening doors, or my favorite, holding the IV bag. It keeps their hands full, and most people who don’t deal with emergencies for a living are absolutely petrified of breaking or somehow screwing up the line, or dropping the bag.
Focusing on the solution rather than the problem works almost every time. Even when it doesn’t, things tend to improve when a competent person with a plan arrives on scene.